Note: This will be my last post, as I am planning to transfer to another location. Meaning, I will still keep on blogging, but under another account and another name.
While reading through ASW posts, I came across this thread "Smart men don't like smart women"... and vice versa. Of course, there are so many opinions, etc... As for me? Really? I like men who are smarter than me, though, not people who are dumb. Which reminds me of this crazy American, who bombarded me with text messages a few days before he left Philippines... I will never, ever forget the experience... This is what I get for associating myself with mentally disturbed people... Sure, I already told him he is retarded, stupid, etc, (how evil I was) simply to fend off his courting. You see, even though he already told me that I would be a crappy girlfriend/wife, that still did not stop him from harassing me with "sweet" text messages. Why I do not like him? I am typing the reasons below:
1. I really have no plans to have a boyfriend. I prefer being single. My plan is to become like Queen Elizabeth 1. This is not simply because of some trauma in the past, but because... I really want to become a great person someday. I believe I can do more things if I am single. The same happened with Jesus.
2. He was just a friend for me. He could have been a very good best friend... a confidante... but he spoiled everything. He wanted something more than friendship, something I could not give. I explained that to him for a lot of times... first, with a very calm manner... then when that did not stop him from disturbing me, I started to become nasty, shouting him in public simply to humiliate him (I like being evil, I guess :-p )... still, that did not stop him from sending a text message... "...No one deserves me more than you." EEEEK! Yeaarrgh! The horror!
3. He is plainly stupid. I don't really go for stupid guys. Though I did not tell him in person that we don't have the same level of IQ (he did not even know where Eiffel Tower was located till I told him), I believe he already noticed how I treated him. I already told him he was "Retarded," like a lot of times... that is, after I became evil to him. Whenever we would have discussions... I could not find any interesting topic to talk about... He likes anime... sure, I like anime, but I'm not as knowledgeable about that childhood love as he... what else? He doesn't know who Rip Van Winkle is... He does not watch news... he is an American, all right, so he must have access to the best educational system in the world... and yet, he is not simply that guy. Actually, he could not enter Harvard, Yale, etc. simply because he does not have the grade and the brain... Well, I'm not really looking for people who entered prestigious university, even though I came from a prestigious university, har har, looking for the same blood... Still, if I were to have a boyfriend (which is most unlikely, as I am fending off attraction), I would like someone whom I could talk to about a lot of things. And aside anime, his other favorite topic is sex... like, he likes to talk about sex in a childlike manner... he likes to do it... he would request for it. Of course, we did it, but I made sure he paid for the motel bills, as in the first place, I did not request for it... Aside being retarded, he is immature. 21 years old, really no-brainer...
But then... this reminds me of this old guy who came from a prestigious university... "breathing down your neck..." sure, it could be a friendly gesture... but for me, it's icky.
4. He is not a gentleman. He thinks paying for things bought, food, etc. is a way of being a gentleman. Maybe he needs to read a "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus," but due to his limited capacity of understanding, I wonder if he will be patient with that type of book. But then, he is not your ideal man. He will not carry your bags (unless you're a very old woman... and I doubt he will do that even with old women... he is, like, subnormal, he won't even notice his surroundings), hold out his arm for you to hold, open the door for you... He is not a gentleman... I won't wonder if he reaches 50 without a wife or girlfriend because... he is simply not man enough... Pathetic, yes, but what can I do? He does not even want to change himself... I already told him about this, he gave his reasons... whatever...
Which reminds me... I am invited to this birthday on August 13th :-) Birthday of an Indian friend :-) (and I thought she totally ignored me after many days). Ok, I will attend...
Now back to the crazy American... he is crazy because... 1. He got out of the army due to anxiety disorder, 2. He bombarded me with text messages even though I clearly told him to stop sending me text messages like a lot of times, 3. He would email me, saying things that would annoy me... he likes getting hurt and getting depressed, maybe.
Now, why he liked me? Reasons that he gave were like, 1. I am wise, to be honest, wiser than him, 2. I am hard to be pleased... guess he likes being challenged.
The worst of all this: He is hoping for us to meet again after 5 years. God... I pray to God... that within 5 years, even though it may sound impossible due to his character, he has found a regular job and the love of his life... any nationality is ok, as long as it is not me... and I sincerely hope I do not meet him for the rest of his and/or my life... He is a creep, with the possibility to become a stalker... He has all the symptoms, that is why I blocked him from all of my social networking accounts... He destroyed my trust after the incident, i.e. bombarding me with text messages and reminding me of his "help" for my candidacy... which reminds me, the people he asked for to help me - did not contact me. Even this landlady, who said there was a gay man who would help me - did not contact me. Actually, I think it is much better if I did not receive any kind of help given by the crazy American. It is not etiquette-wise if I did receive. The only help I got from him: one vote for the Facebook application plus some envelopes that I had not been able to use... Well, I will thank him for this, but not for what he did...
